Sunday, July 14, 2013

Gurunanak

Guru Nanak was a compassionate and courageous man. Once he was traveling by foot, walking from village to village, offering his teachings to people. He was not one of those all-the-time smiling, gentle saints. He knew when to be hard and when to be soft.  
 
One day, he happened to be a guest in a home of a very rich man in the area. After a few days, as he was leaving, he gave this man a sewing needle and said, keep this with you. Sometime in the future when you see me, you can give it back to me. After the Guru had left, the man told his wife about the incident. The wife immediately scolded the man, You fool, why did you take a needle from a guru? He is an old man. Suppose he dies and you don't get to give back this needle, what will you do? Offering him something is fine but you should not receive anything from a man like him. Else, you will be in debt forever. You will be unable to wash out that one karma, and this may mean another thousand lifetimes for you. This is not a good thing. Somehow try to find him and return it to him immediately.
 
So the man started trekking the path that Nanakdev had taken. After a couple of months the man caught up with him and said, Guruji, I don't want to carry this needle with me. You are an old man. In case you die, I would not be able to carry this needle to heaven and return it to you there. I will be in debt forever. Guru Nanak replied, So you know that you cannot carry this needle to heaven, right? The man said, Yes. When you know you cannot carry a needle, what about all those other things you are accumulating? You will not be able to carry any of that either. The man fell at Nanakdev's feet. He went back home, just kept what was needed for his family, and went about building whatever was needed for the wellbeing of people all around.
 
The world is a limited space with limited resources So whether it is individuals, societies or nations, when they go about accumulating endlessly, all that can happen is strife and pain for self and others. Unless every individual decides for himself, This is what I need. The rest of my capabilities, I will use for everybody's wellbeing, he is a disaster to himself and to the world. All human suffering and the suffering of every other creature has been created by our ignorance, and nothing else. And this ignorance is getting empowered by technology, and it's going all out. The true disaster on this planet is not an earthquake, volcano or tsunami. It is human ignorance. Enlightenment that comes with awareness is the only solution.

Let us not be slaves of our words

Once an old man spread rumors that his neighbor was a thief. As a result, the young man was arrested. Days later the young man was proven innocent. After being released he sued the old man for wrongly accusing him. 

In the court the old man told the Judge: "They were just comments, didn't harm anyone." The judge told the old man: "Write all the things you said about him on a piece of paper. Cut them up and on the way home, throw the pieces of paper out. Tomorrow, come back to hear the sentence." Next day, the judge told the old man: "Before receiving the sentence, you will have to go out and gather all the pieces of paper that you threw out yesterday." 

The old man said: "I can't do that! The wind spread them and I won't know where to find them." The judge then replied: "The same way, simple comments may destroy the honor of a man to such an extent that one is not able to fix it. If you can't speak well of someone, rather don't say anything."
 
"Let's all be masters of our mouths, so that we won't be slaves of our words." 

 

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Never judge anyone

A doctor entered the hospital in hurry after being called in for an urgent surgery. He answered the call asap, changed his clothes & went directly to the surgery block. He found the boy’s father pacing in the hall waiting for the doctor. On seeing him, the dad yelled:
“Why did you take all this time to come? Don’t you know that my son’s life is in danger? Don’t you have any sense of responsibility?”

The doctor smiled & said:
“I am sorry, I wasn't in the hospital & I came as fast as I could after receiving the call…… And now, I wish you’d calm down so that I can do my work”

“Calm down?! What if your son was in this room right now, would you calm down? If your own son dies now what will you do??” said the father angrily

The doctor smiled again & replied: “I will say what Job said in the Holy Book “From dust we came & to dust we return, blessed be the name of God”. Doctors cannot prolong lives. Go & intercede for your son, we will do our best by God’s grace”

“Giving advises when we’re not concerned is so easy” Murmured the father.

The surgery took some hours after which the doctor went out happy,
“Thank goodness!, your son is saved!” And without waiting for the father’s reply he carried on his way running. “If you have any question, ask the nurse!!”

“Why is he so arrogant? He couldn't wait some minutes so that I ask about my son’s state” Commented the father when seeing the nurse minutes after the doctor left.

The nurse answered, tears coming down her face: “His son died yesterday in a road accident, he was in the burial when we called him for your son’s surgery. And now that he saved your son’s life, he left running to finish his son’s burial.”

Moral-Never judge anyone….. because you never know how their life is & what they’re going through”

Friday, February 1, 2013

Reality of Life:
We work for making better tomorrow.
But when tomorrow comes, instead of enjoying,


Reality of life:
We work for making better tomorrow.
But when tomorrow comes instead of enjoying,
we again start thinking for better tomorrow.
LIFE itself has no meaning.
LIFE is an opportunity to create a meaning.
Life is too ironic to fully understand.
It takes sadness to know what happiness is.
It takes noise to appreciate silence.
And absence to value presence.
Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect.
It just means we have decided to see everything beyond the imperfections.
Take care of your thoughts when you are ALONE.
Take care of your words when you are in a CROWD.

The biggest mistake by most human beings: Listening half, understanding quarter, and telling double.

There is nothing so disobedient as an undisciplined mind &
there is nothing so obedient as a disciplined mind.

Saturday, January 5, 2013

THE MISSING WATCH



There once was a farmer who discovered that he had lost his watch in the barn. It was no ordinary watch because it had sentimental value for him.
After searching high and low among the hay for a long while; he gave up and enlisted the help of a group of children playing outside the barn.-

He promised them that the person who found it would be rewarded.-

Hearing this, the children hurried inside the barn, went through and around the entire stack of hay but still could not find the watch. Just when the farmer was about to give up looking for his watch, a little boy
went up to him and asked to be given another chance.

The farmer looked at him and thought, "Why not? After all, this kid looks sincere enough."

So the farmer sent the little boy back in the barn. After a while the little boy came out with the watch in his hand! The farmer was both happy and surprised and so he asked the boy how he succeeded where the rest had failed.

The boy replied, "I did nothing but sit on the ground and listen. In the silence, I heard the ticking of the watch and just looked for it in that direction."

- Moral: A peaceful mind can think better than a worked up mind.

Allow a few minutes of silence to your mind every day, and see, how sharply it helps you to set your life the way you expect it to be...!